self-judgement Archives - Brilliant Seeds https://www.brilliantseeds.com/tag/self-judgement/ Discover the Career You Absolutely Love and the Confidence to Make it Happen Thu, 24 Oct 2013 18:15:48 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 https://www.brilliantseeds.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/favicon.png self-judgement Archives - Brilliant Seeds https://www.brilliantseeds.com/tag/self-judgement/ 32 32 The most painful is our own self-judgement, not others’ https://www.brilliantseeds.com/the-most-painful-is-our-own-self-judgement-not-others/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=the-most-painful-is-our-own-self-judgement-not-others https://www.brilliantseeds.com/the-most-painful-is-our-own-self-judgement-not-others/#respond Thu, 24 Oct 2013 18:15:48 +0000 https://brilliantseeds.com/?p=388 When we are judged negatively by someone else (or afraid of being judged), the most painful is not so much the other person’s judgement (or imagined judgement) than our own negative judgement on ourselves, and how this external judgement hit us at a place where we are already judging ourselves harshly. Being aware of our […]

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]]> When we are judged negatively by someone else (or afraid of being judged), the most painful is not so much the other person’s judgement (or imagined judgement) than our own negative judgement on ourselves, and how this external judgement hit us at a place where we are already judging ourselves harshly. Being aware of our own negative judgement on ourselves and developing compassion and acceptance for all the parts of ourselves (including, and especially, the parts we don’t like) is the first step to self-grow and change. As paradoxical as it may seem, the more you accept yourself as you are, the more you change.

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]]> When we are judged negatively by someone else (or afraid of being judged), the most painful is not so much the other person’s judgement (or imagined judgement) than our own negative judgement on ourselves, and how this external judgement hit us at a place where we are already judging ourselves harshly. Being aware of our own negative judgement on ourselves and developing compassion and acceptance for all the parts of ourselves (including, and especially, the parts we don’t like) is the first step to self-grow and change. As paradoxical as it may seem, the more you accept yourself as you are, the more you change.

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