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		<title>What are your career blindspots?</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Isabelle Peyrichoux]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Oct 2023 04:26:11 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>What are the blindspots holding back your career growth and fulfillment? With my clients, I see two main types of blind posts blocking them from achieving the career of their dreams. In this video, I’m sharing what are these blindspots and how to transform them. &#160; &#160; If you watch until the end, I’ll share [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>What are the blindspots holding back your career growth and fulfillment?</strong></p>
<p>With my clients, I see two main types of blind posts blocking them from achieving the career of their dreams.</p>
<p><a href="https://brilliantseeds.us7.list-manage.com/track/click?u=9e67d0b603e0cdfe47f20c205&amp;id=401ac7a1fb&amp;e=c99e48b499">In this video</a>, I’m sharing what are these blindspots and how to transform them.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
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<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>If you watch until the end, I’ll share with you how you can sign up for my free 25-minute audit of your career blind posts.</p>
<p>In this call, you will uncover:</p>
<ul>
<li>the main blind spots holding back your career growth and fulfillment.</li>
<li>some powerful actions you can take right away to transform these blindspots.</li>
</ul>
<p>Enjoy and let me know what you find out.</p>
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		<title>NEW offerings!</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Isabelle Peyrichoux]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Oct 2022 08:59:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m excited to introduce some new offerings! These offerings are based on my own personal and professional journey in the past three years. I&#8217;ve USED these tools PERSONALLY to improve my own career and life. Everything I do with my clients, I&#8217;ve tried myself first. I WON&#8217;T recommend anything I have NOT tried and or that does [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>I&#8217;m excited to introduce some new offerings!</strong></p>
<p>These offerings are based on my own personal and professional journey in the past three years.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve USED these tools PERSONALLY to improve my own career and life.</p>
<p>Everything I do with my clients, <strong>I&#8217;ve tried myself first.</strong></p>
<p><strong>I WON&#8217;T recommend anything I have NOT tried and or that does not yield RESULTS. </strong></p>
<p>Rewind three years ago, I had done a LOT of work on myself for fifteen years; I thought I was pretty much &#8220;done.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8230; until I came across two powerful modalities through a workshop I attended.</p>
<p>Then, I realized, that despite all the work I had done on myself and the great progress I had seen, there were some habitual and unconscious patterns I was stuck into that impeded the next stage of my evolution in work, life, and relationships.</p>
<p>These modalities helped me:</p>
<ol>
<li>Identify these patterns and blindspots with incredible accuracy.</li>
<li>Significantly transform them, when other modalities had failed to do so.</li>
</ol>
<p>For the past three years, I dived deeply into them, both for my own personal growth and for my professional development as a coach.</p>
<p><strong>These have LITERALLY transformed my life, my work, and my relationships for the better. </strong></p>
<ul>
<li>All my business and personal relationships drastically improved.</li>
<li>My confidence took a leap.</li>
<li>I am owning my truth and my own voice with so much more ease.</li>
<li>I am freer to be myself in most of my interactions.</li>
<li>Some of my harshest inner critic voices are gone.</li>
<li>I don&#8217;t believe anymore the limiting beliefs that were unconsciously running my thoughts and behaviors  (such as &#8220;I&#8217;m not enough&#8221;, &#8220;something is wrong with me&#8221;, or &#8220;I am different and alone&#8221;).</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>These modalities have also made a BIG difference for my clients.</strong></p>
<p>As a result, my clients&#8230;</p>
<ul>
<li>significantly increased their ability to focus, and follow through on their career goals.</li>
<li>stepped into the talents they had lost touch with for years or even decades.</li>
<li>ask for what they want and set boundaries with more ease.</li>
<li>increased their self-worth and confidence.</li>
<li>freed themselves from the &#8220;shoulds&#8221; and social conditioning to forge their own path.</li>
<li>transformed internal critical voices into voices of appreciation and self-acceptance.</li>
<li>are more comfortable with taking risks, making mistakes, and failing,</li>
<li>are more authentic, vulnerable, and comfortable feeling and expressing their emotions.</li>
<li>are more comfortable facing their fears.</li>
</ul>
<p>This is why I decided to open these modalities to EVERYONE, whether you are a new, current, or past client AND whether you want to reinvent your career or not.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Introducing The Enneagram and Shadow Work&#8230;</strong></p>
<p><strong>Below are ways to take advantage of them.</strong><br />
<em>As part of the launch of these offerings, I&#8217;m offering a</em><em> </em><em><u>significant discount If you sign up</u></em><em><u> </u></em><em><u>by October 31</u></em></p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Enneagram Discovery Package</strong> &#8211; A bundle of two sessions to uncover your Enneagram Type, your main defeating patterns and blindspots, how they are impeding your career, life, and relationships, and how to transform them.</li>
<li><strong>Enneagram Discovery &amp; Transformation Package</strong> &#8211;  which includes:
<ul>
<li>The Enneagram Discovery Package above</li>
<li>A series of sessions to transform your main defeating patterns and blindspots and reach your career, life, and relationship goals with more ease. Includes different modalities such as shadow and part work.</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>** BONUS ** for new and past clients</strong><strong> </strong><strong>(until</strong><strong> </strong><strong>October 31</strong><strong>)</strong><br />
If you are a new or past client who sign up for my Roadmap to the Career You Love, Land the Career You Love, or Career Coaching Extension Programs by October 31, you will get the <u>Enneagram Discovery Package as a BONUS at no additional charge.</u><strong> </strong></p>
<p>If you are curious and want to learn more, <a href="mailto: isabelle@brilliantseeds.com">email me</a> and I&#8217;ll send you more info.</p>
<p>To the liberation of your full potential,</p>
<p>Isabelle</p>
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		<title>my interview is LIVE&#8230; and I don&#8217;t hold back!</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jessica Bonin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Jul 2022 17:26:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>A few weeks ago, I was interviewed for RTL podcasts, a top French-speaking radio podcast. The interview is now LIVE on RTL Podcasts and Spotify. In this interview (in French), I don&#8217;t hold back&#8230; I share personal stories about self-limiting patterns that used to hinder my success in relationships, life, and work. I reveal how the Enneagram has helped me significantly transform [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>A few weeks ago, I was interviewed for RTL podcasts, a top French-speaking radio podcast.</strong></span></p>
<p>The interview is now LIVE on <a href="https://www.rtl.be/podcasts/episode/50187523">RTL Podcasts</a> and <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/4fkztTMQn1gnchKM0sSY18">Spotify</a>.</p>
<p><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-3677" src="http://www.brilliantseeds.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/27f98624-5ad9-1bb7-784f-c9a9faa30ae6-300x300.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="300" /></p>
<p><strong><a href="https://www.rtl.be/podcasts/episode/50187523">In this interview</a> </strong>(in French), I don&#8217;t hold back&#8230;</p>
<p>I share personal stories about self-limiting patterns that used to hinder my success in relationships, life, and work.</p>
<p>I reveal how the Enneagram has helped me significantly transform these self-limiting patterns and beliefs and transform my relationships, my confidence, my career, and my business.</p>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">When used well, the Enneagram<strong> </strong>is one of the most powerful and precise tools of personal and professional transformation I know. In combination with coaching and other modalities such as shadow and part work, the Enneagram will help you:</p>
<ul style="font-weight: 400;">
<li>Identify and move past your main self-limiting patterns in the way of actualizing your career goals.</li>
<li>Improve your personal and professional relationships.</li>
<li>Increase your self-esteem and confidence.</li>
<li>And much more.</li>
</ul>
<p style="font-weight: 400;">This is why I often use it with my clients to help them move past their self-limiting patterns stopping them from reaching their career and life goals.<strong> </strong></p>
<p>Isabelle</p>
<p>&gt; &gt; <strong>If you understand French</strong>, I encourage you to listen to <a href="https://www.rtl.be/podcasts/episode/50187523">my interview</a> (Base 4) and to the <a href="https://www.rtl.be/podcasts/show/5585055">interviews of the eight other types</a>. You will learn a lot about yourself and the people in your life.</p>
<p>&gt;&gt; <strong>If you want to discover your Enneagram type, the self-limiting patterns holding you back, and how to move past them</strong>, you can do an <u>Enneagram Typing Interview</u> with me. I have a few spots available for those before July 22, when I&#8217;m taking my summer vacation in France, <a href="Mailto:isabelle@brilliantseeds.com">Email me</a> if you want to learn more.</p>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Isabelle Peyrichoux]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jan 2020 05:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m scared&#8230; and I&#8217;m doing it&#160;anyway.&#160; I just submitted a proposal to speak at an International Conference! Being a thought leader and speaking internationally, giving inspirational&#160;talks around the world is one of my long-time dreams. Claiming it publicly is scary. and I&#8217;m owning it.&#160;Whatever happens.&#160; It is&#160;TIME. I&#8217;m feeling a strong nudge&#160;in that direction. This [&#8230;]</p>
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<p><strong>I&#8217;m scared&#8230;</strong></p>



<p>and I&#8217;m doing it&nbsp;anyway.&nbsp;

</p>



<p class="has-text-color has-vivid-red-color"><strong>I just submitted <span style="text-decoration: underline;">a proposal to speak at an International Conference</span>!</strong></p>



<p><em>Being a thought leader and speaking internationally, giving inspirational&nbsp;talks around the world is <span style="text-decoration: underline;">one of my long-time dreams</span>.</em><br><br><strong>Claiming it publicly is scary.</strong><br><br>and I&#8217;m owning it.&nbsp;Whatever happens.&nbsp;<br><br><strong>It is&nbsp;TIME.</strong><br><br>I&#8217;m feeling a strong nudge&nbsp;in that direction.<br><br>This is what my heart wants.&nbsp;<br><br>and <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">I&#8217;m listening to it, despite fears and doubts</span></strong>.<br><br><strong>What about you? Are you listening to your inner impulses? to what is TRULY calling you?</strong><br><br>or are you letting fears and doubts decide?<br><br>Look within.<br><br>NOW.&nbsp;<br><br><strong>It is time.</strong><br><br>Isabelle </p>



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		<title>Can you answer this question?</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Isabelle Peyrichoux]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Mar 2019 13:23:55 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>What brings&#160;you JOY? Can you answer this question? I mean:&#160;answer it honestly, without censoring yourself&#160;to make a good impression or&#160;worrying about what people think about what you love? If not, that may be one of the things&#160;stopping you from finding&#160;the career you love. I&#8217;ve seen it with several&#160;of&#160;my clients. Some just cannot&#160;answer that&#160;question. Others have&#160;negative [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>What brings&nbsp;you JOY</strong><strong>?</strong></p>
<p><strong>Can you answer this question?</strong></p>
<p>I mean:&nbsp;<span style="text-decoration: underline;">answer it honestly, without censoring yourself</span>&nbsp;to make a good impression or&nbsp;worrying about what people think about what you love?</p>
<p>If not, that may be one of the things&nbsp;<strong>stopping you from finding&nbsp;the career you love.</strong></p>
<p>I&#8217;ve seen it with several&nbsp;of&nbsp;my clients.</p>
<ul>
<li>Some just cannot&nbsp;answer that&nbsp;question.</li>
<li>Others have&nbsp;negative judgments (or even shame)&nbsp;about some of the things they TRULY ENJOY doing and they hide them.</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>How can you find the work you love&nbsp;<span style="text-decoration: underline;">if you don&#8217;t know what brings you TRUE JOY and HAPPINESS</span></strong>&nbsp;or if you are thinking it&#8217;s not okay to love what you love?</p>
<p>It is very hard.</p>
<p><strong>The first step is becoming aware of what you enjoy</strong>&nbsp;and what your unique ingredients of fulfillment. are, independently of what people think or what you think these &#8220;should&#8221; be.</p>
<p>This is why we start with that in my coaching programs.</p>
<p><em>A good way to begin is to collect&nbsp;your happiness (or even &#8220;micro happiness&#8221;) moments&nbsp;at the end of the day or week. At the end of the day, take&nbsp;a journal and write down the moments, even brief, when&nbsp;you experienced joy during your day or week.</em></p>
<p>Keep me posted on what you find!</p>
<p>To the work that brings you JOY!</p>
<p>Isabelle</p>
<p>P.S. One of the things that bring me joy&nbsp;and that I used to hide and&nbsp;be embarrassed about is FASHION and dressing up. I used to judge it, thinking it was &#8220;superficial&#8221;&nbsp; and &#8220;not smart&nbsp;enough&#8221; to like&nbsp;fashion and beauty. Fashion&nbsp;is often poo-pooed&nbsp;in our hyper-masculine and hyper-analytical&nbsp;western cultures and considered &#8220;weak&#8221; or &#8220;superficial.&#8221; I am not hiding it anymore! This is part of who I am and I own it. I&#8217;m not less smart because I LOVE fashion.</p>


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		<title>THIS may be holding you back. It did for me.</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Isabelle Peyrichoux]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2019 05:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Since my grandma&#8217;s death a month ago, I&#8217;ve been remembering all the sweet memories of my time with her. I found this picture of me when I was 4 in front of my grandparents&#8217; house. My grandma took it. You may wonder: What has this to do with going for the career and life of your dreams? [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Since my grandma&#8217;s death a month ago, I&#8217;ve been remembering all the sweet memories of my time with her.</p>
<p>I found this picture of me when I was 4 in front of my grandparents&#8217; house. My grandma took it.</p>
<p>You may wonder: <span style="color: #800000;"><strong>What has this to do with going for the career and life of your dreams?</strong></span></p>
<p><strong>It has <span style="text-decoration: underline;">EVERYTHING to do with it</span>. </strong></p>
<p>In the past 10 years, I&#8217;ve been doing a lot of inner work to<strong> heal my childhood wounds and change the limiting beliefs I had about myself </strong>since childhood that impacted my life as an adult.</p>
<p>I used to think that there was something wrong with me.<br />I was not pretty enough.<br />I was not fun enough.<br />I was not <em>[fill in the blank]</em> enough.</p>
<p>Thanks to all the inner work, I now know that <span style="color: #800000;"><strong>these beliefs were FALSE.</strong></span></p>
<p>I&#8217;m PERFECT exactly as I am.<br />There is nothing wrong with me.</p>
<p>There has never been.</p>
<p>NEVER.</p>
<p>&#8230;except in my own mind.</p>
<p>When I see this adorable little girl, <span style="color: #800000;"><strong>I can LOVE her exactly as she was</strong>.</span><br />and send her the love that I could not give her then.</p>
<p>I see PERFECTION in her.<br />I see BEAUTY in her.<br />INSIDE and OUT.</p>
<p>I know she has nothing to prove to anyone.</p>
<p><em>She never had.</em></p>
<p>What about you?</p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Are you able to love your younger self and see the perfection in them?</strong></span></p>
<p>or</p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Are you still holding negative beliefs about yourself?</strong></span><br />That you are not enough or broken in some ways?</p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Are these negative beliefs unconsciously driving you </strong><strong>to <span style="text-decoration: underline;">PROVE that you are enough</span>?</strong></span><br />to make choices in your career and your life to PROVE your enoughness?</p>
<p>If so, this may be <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>why you are stuck in work you hate</strong></span> or not having the work and life you want.</p>
<p>I see it in a lot of my clients.<br />The deep-seated belief that they are not enough.<br />and the need to prove that they are enough.</p>
<p>As a result, they make choices or behave in a way to PROVE their enoughness.</p>
<ul>
<li>The unconscious false beliefs they took on as a child is still driving their work and life as adults.</li>
<li>They wonder why they are stuck in a vicious cycle and can&#8217;t be happy in their work.</li>
</ul>
<p>Through the process I do with them, I help them reconnect with their true authentic self, their innate brilliance within. They start realizing there is nothing wrong with them, nothing to change about who they are.</p>
<p>&#8230;and things start to shift.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>What beliefs are you holding about YOU?</strong></span></p>
<p>Comment below and share with me. I&#8217;m here to support you.</p>
<p>To your brilliance,<br />To the work and life that reflect that brilliance,</p>
<p>Isabelle</p>
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		<title>(VIDEO) Are you unclear about the work you want to do? Watch THIS.</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Isabelle Peyrichoux]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jan 2019 05:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Are you or someone you know unclear or confused about the work you want to do or what is next in your career or life? I made this video for you or people who are in this situation. This applies everytime you think you are not clear about what is next for you. I share some powerful questions to ask yourself to [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are you or someone you know <strong><span style="color: #800000;">unclear or confused about the work you want to do</span> </strong>or <span style="color: #800000;"><strong>what is next in your career or life</strong>?</span></p>
<p>I made <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="http://https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9g38Jou4Uxs&amp;feature=youtu.be" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">this video</a> </span>for you or people who are in this situation. This applies everytime you think you are not clear about what is next for you.</p>
<p>I share some <strong>powerful questions to ask yourself</strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"> to help you move forward.</span></p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9g38Jou4Uxs&amp;feature=youtu.be" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Watch the video</a></span> and respond to this email with the insights you are getting or any questions you have.</p>
<p>To you doing the work you love in 2019!</p>
<p>Isabelle</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Apr 2018 23:18:09 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Do you know what is one of the BIGGEST ROADBLOCKS to discovering the Career You Love?  &#8230;.and that I&#8217;ve seen in so many of my clients, especially when they seem really stuck. Well, I can tell you what it is NOT. It is NOT: &#8211; a lack of clarity (even if people think it is, and at a [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Do you know what is one of the BIGGEST ROADBLOCKS to discovering the Career You Love? </strong></span></p>
<p>&#8230;.and that I&#8217;ve seen in so many of my clients, especially when they seem really stuck.</p>
<p><strong>Well, I can tell you what it is NOT.</strong><br />
<strong>It is NOT:</strong><br />
&#8211; a lack of clarity (even if people think it is, and at a superficial level it feels that way)<br />
&#8211; a lack of skills or talents<br />
&#8211; a lack of job or career options out there</p>
<p>Nope, none of that.</p>
<p>Surprising, eh?<br />
<strong>Here is what it is:</strong></p>
<p>Some <span style="color: #800000;"><strong>negative beliefs about themselves they took on as a result of painful life experiences</strong></span> (or conditioning) and the story they made around it:</p>
<ul>
<li>&#8220;I&#8217;m not worthy&#8221;</li>
<li>&#8220;I&#8217;m too wild&#8221;</li>
<li>&#8220;I&#8217;m not lovable&#8221;</li>
<li>&#8220;I&#8217;m not as smart as my brother&#8221;</li>
<li>&#8220;I&#8217;m not smart&#8221;</li>
<li>&#8220;I&#8217;m weird&#8221;</li>
<li>&#8220;I&#8217;m too bossy&#8221;</li>
<li>&#8220;I&#8217;m too much&#8221;</li>
<li>&#8220;I&#8217;m not creative&#8221;</li>
<li>I&#8217;m not good enough&#8221;</li>
<li>&#8230;.and the list goes on and on.</li>
</ul>
<p>I&#8217;ve seen that in SO MANY of my clients that I cannot ignore it. Many times, there is a point in the process we get there, and it&#8217;s when the real breakthrough happens.</p>
<p><strong>Because this is the REAL BLOCK.</strong><br />
<span style="color: #800000;"><strong>It is our perception of who we are that affects what we think we can do.</strong></span></p>
<p>Let me say that again:</p>
<p><strong>It is our perception of who we are that affects what we think we can do.</strong></p>
<p>Let it sink in.<br />
When we clear that, everything changes. And suddenly, my clients realize that clarity was not the problem. <strong>They KNEW ALL ALONG what they truly wanted.</strong><br />
It is<strong> <span style="color: #800000;">the shadow of their old wound that made it blurry for them to see what they truly wanted.</span></strong><br />
When it&#8217;s cleared, they are ready to: <strong>Give themselves permission to be who they are and love what they love.</strong></p>
<p>From that place, EVERYTHING becomes possible.</p>
<p><strong>So, here are my question for you:</strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #800000;">Deep down, do you hold negative beliefs about yourself?</span> </strong>If so, what are they?</p>
<p>Be really honest with yourself. This is an uncomfortable place, but this is a necessary place to explore if you want to create the career and life you truly want.</p>
<p>I know. I&#8217;ve been there myself.</p>
<p>And this is why I&#8217;m ready to go there with you. <strong>This is in the shadow that you will find your light. </strong>Sometimes, there is no other way.</p>
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<p>But the journey is SO worth it. This is where lasting change happens. I guarantee it. I&#8217;ve seen it so many times now.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Are you ready?</strong></span></p>
<p>I&#8217;m ready to go there with you!</p>
<p>Feel free to comment below and share. I am here cheering you on.</p>
<p><strong>I believe in you.</strong></p>
<p>Isabelle</p>
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<p>P.S. To your brilliant light that is waiting to soar.</p>
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		<title>What are you saying NO to? (pics from my apartment)</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Apr 2018 18:47:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Do you know that saying NO to what you don&#8217;t want is as important as saying YES to what you want? It is often a prerequisite to it. It is necessary. You need to say no to what you do NOT want to make space for what you DO want. There is no other way. And this is true when [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Do you know that <span style="text-decoration: underline;">saying NO</span> to what you don&#8217;t want is as important as <span style="text-decoration: underline;">saying YES</span> to what you want?</strong></span></p>
<p>It is often a prerequisite to it.<br />
It is necessary.<br />
You need to say no to what you do NOT want to make space for what you DO want.<br />
<strong>There is no other way.</strong></p>
<p>And<strong> <span style="color: #800000;">this is true when you want to do work you love.</span> </strong>You have to let go of work that is not for you.</p>
<p>Last week,<strong> </strong><strong>I had</strong> <strong>a professional organizer come to my place</strong> to help me organize and declutter three big closets I have been procrastinating on. She was so good that she ended up reorganizing my whole apartment!</p>
<div>I gave away several boxes of stuff.<br />
<strong>I let go of what was not serving me anymore.</strong><br />
I let go of things that were not bringing me joy.<br />
I let go of things from the past that were not aligned with the future I am creating.<strong> It was not easy. </strong><br />
I wanted to grab onto them.<br />
I resisted at first.<br />
But I knew grabbing onto them would not help me create the feeling I wanted to have in my place.<br />
<span style="color: #800000;"><strong>I HAD to let go to create the NEW feeling I wanted. </strong></span><br />
I had to let go of the old to make space for the new.<strong> I am SO happy I did. It was worth it. </strong><br />
I LOVE how my place feels like.<br />
It feels so much more open and spacious for the new things I want in my life.Here are just a few pics. There is WAY more. My closets look amazing! I&#8217;m so happy with them that the first thing I do when I get up is look at them. 🙂</p>
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<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>What do you need to say NO to to welcome what you want?</strong></span><br />
What is no longer working for you?<br />
What is it you keep doing or having even if that does not bring you joy?</p>
<p><strong>This is the experience of a lot of my clients. </strong>When they clarify the career they DO want, it often comes a time when they have to say NO to what they do not want anymore, which includes the shining offers coming their way that are a reflection of their old self and their old life. I call them &#8220;shiny objects.&#8221; Ah, because they are SO tempting&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>What are &#8220;shiny objects&#8221; that look so cool on the outside but you know <span style="text-decoration: underline;">deep down</span> that they are NOT what you <span style="text-decoration: underline;">truly</span> want?</strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>To make space for what you DO want, you will have </strong>&#8211;at some point, when the time is right&#8211;<strong> to say NO to what you do not want anymore.</strong></span></p>
<p>It won&#8217;t be easy.<br />
You will resist it.<br />
Your rational mind will tell you all the reasons why you should not do it.<br />
You will second guess yourself.<br />
I will take courage.</p>
<p><strong>But it will be SO worth it. </strong><br />
What is on the other side is your freedom and your joy.<br />
Your liberation.</p>
<p>I know it. I have been through it.</p>
<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>This is what I stand for.</strong></span><br />
This is why I do this work.<br />
<strong>To help you be free to be who you truly are and do what you love.</strong></p>
<p>To your freedom,</p>
<p>Isabelle</p>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Isabelle Peyrichoux]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2018 23:23:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Roadblocks to Work You Love]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[don't discount what you truly love]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Do you sometimes think that the thing you love doing is weird? or not cool? or do you discount it, and think you don&#8217;t actually have anything you love or any passion?  When people ask you what you enjoy doing, you cannot find an answer. Well, I did. I used to think what I love was weird and &#8220;not [&#8230;]</p>
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<li>Do you sometimes think that the thing you love doing is weird? or not cool?</li>
<li>or do you discount it, and think you don&#8217;t actually have anything you love or any passion?  When people ask you what you enjoy doing, you cannot find an answer.</li>
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<div><strong>Well, I did. I used to think what I love was weird and &#8220;not cool.&#8221; </strong><strong>&#8230; and this stopped me for a long time from doing the work I love.</strong>Since my early twenties, I have been drawn to personal growth. In bookstores (when bookstores where still popular!), I would spend hours in the Personal Help and Psychology section. I would totally dig learning more about me and how I could be more fulfilled in my life.When I went to my first therapy session at age 20, I totally loved it and I loved how I felt after! I discovered how cool it was for me to dig deeper within myself, to travel within, and learn more about how I function, how others function, and  how we can grow.</p>
<p><strong>Yet, I did not think it was a passion, or a least a legitimate one</strong>. When people would ask me what I love, I would not think about mentioning it. I thought it was a weird thing to love and I discounted it.</p>
<p>At the time, I could not find anybody who had this passion or who did work related to that passion.</p>
<p>In my family, it was non existent.<br />
In my close communities, I would never heard of it.<br />
In the medias, I rarely heard about it.<br />
At school, it was not mentioned at all.</p>
<p><strong>So I thought it was odd or weird to love it&#8230; and that I <em>should</em> love something else, more &#8220;<em>normal</em>.&#8221;</strong></p>
<p>Like the &#8220;traditional&#8221; careers I would hear of and see around me:  teacher, doctor, farmer, librarian, nurse, and so on.</p>
<p>I thought I had to choose one of them. There was no other choices.</p>
<p><strong>So, I conformed.</strong></p>
<p><strong>I did the &#8220;cool&#8221; thing or what society says it is &#8220;cool.&#8221; Or I did what was available and known to me.</strong></p>
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<ul>
<li>First, I chose archeology, more because people thought it was &#8220;cool&#8221; than because I had a true passion for it.</li>
<li>Then, I went into information science and user experience. I worked in the field of user experience for 10 years. There was definitely a part of it that I enjoyed, yet that was not my full passion.</li>
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<div>When I would share what I do, I would hear &#8220;wow, this is so cool.&#8221;But inside, I was doubting if it was really that cool for me&#8230;<strong>It is only in my mid thirties, when I reached a point I was very unhappy in my work, that I started seriously considering my love for personal development as a potential career path. </strong>Growing up, I did not fit into the &#8220;traditional career&#8221; category because what I loved was different. There was not category for it at least I could not see any. My love for personal development was not valued in my immediate environment and in the mainstream culture.</p>
<p><strong>Can you relate? </strong></p>
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<ul>
<li>Do you discount what you truly love?</li>
<li>Do you think what you love is not cool?</li>
<li>Do you conform to what others or society think is cool?</li>
<li>Do you think that what you love cannot be part of your career?</li>
<li>Or do you think you cannot make a living out of it because you don&#8217;t know anybody around you doing that?</li>
</ul>
<div>It is a common block I see with the clients I work with.<strong>Well, I am a proof that this is not true</strong>. My passion for self-discovery and personal growth is an integral part of my livelihood now. A lot of my friends and acquaintances are people who do the same.Last Friday, I was at the <a href="https://brilliantseeds.us7.list-manage.com/track/click?u=9e67d0b603e0cdfe47f20c205&amp;id=86b2b24a6b&amp;e=9a200da727" target="_blank" data-saferedirecturl="https://www.google.com/url?hl=en&amp;q=https://brilliantseeds.us7.list-manage.com/track/click?u%3D9e67d0b603e0cdfe47f20c205%26id%3D86b2b24a6b%26e%3D9a200da727&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1523055899564000&amp;usg=AFQjCNEEz0RTmMTrH8lfOvhaunqJg1ztYQ" rel="noopener noreferrer">book launch</a> of my friend, Brandon who like me, coaches people to align their lives and careers with their purpose. I was surrounded with so many people like me, who love personal and professional development and work in that field. My tribe! Where I belong.<img loading="lazy" decoding="async" tabindex="0" alt="" src="https://ci6.googleusercontent.com/proxy/HO1Knxz-CbthVYf4kFS4vWWi4uIN-908HnkwEStn2B-6PF_YgSmZC2eTVyxfP4FXdkH6pu1PuIlksIp69-GLYE2sJiqgPTJqBoCttj-ltfxF5TdK5aRwWB5OhKA_lmLbNCoKePLFZfVqU_XUCe-NF8OMacUYdmQqomgwDsQ=s0-d-e1-ft#https://gallery.mailchimp.com/9e67d0b603e0cdfe47f20c205/images/78e79c19-8653-4912-aa2c-b640d58322e7.jpg" width="450" height="337" /></p>
<p><strong>I don&#8217;t feel weird anymore.</strong></p>
<p>So, I know these old beliefs I had were not true. The more I feed my passion for personal growth, the better coach I am. All the classes and books I read helps me in my work. There is no more separation between my passion for personal growth and my work. Both are integrated!</p>
<p><strong>Wow! Imagine&#8230;. what that would be like if some of your passions and your work were integrated? </strong></p>
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<ul>
<li><strong>What is a passion you are discounting that is right in front of your eyes? &#8230; </strong><strong>that is so obvious you cannot see it.</strong></li>
<li>or you discount it because you force yourself to fit the traditional career trajectories you see around you or what you hear is &#8220;cool.&#8221;</li>
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<div>Have you even thought they could become an integral part of your work?<strong>Don&#8217;t let your environment influence you!</strong><br />
It is not because you cannot see it around you, that it does not exist or it is not possible.Whatever it is, I&#8217;d love to hear! Please feel free to comment on this post!I have your back.</p>
<p>Isabelle</p>
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<p>P.S. Don&#8217;t ask what is &#8220;sexy&#8221; for others, ask what is &#8220;sexy&#8221; for you. and go and do that!<br />
&#8220;Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.&#8221; &#8212; Howard Thurman</p>
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