The week before last, I wrote a bold message about what staying in work you hate is TRULY costing you. (you can find the article here if you missed it)
Well, I want to dive deeper into one of the BIGGEST costs I’ve heard so many times from the hundreds of people I’ve interviewed over the past 5 years.
It is the cost on your PHYSICAL HEALTH.
Yep, staying in work you hate is making you sick.
Not sure?
Well, I collected for you real words from real people over the hundreds of interviews I’ve done, in English and in French. (notes from an interview in the pic)
I can’t sleep at night.
I wake up in the middle of the night.
I get really anxious.
j’ai les nerfs a fleur de peau.
J’ai des crises d’anxiete.
I have high blood pressure.
I have panic attacks.
My mind is racing.
I am physically drained.
I am tired.
I have no energy.
I am exhausted.
Je suis tendu.
I am sick to my stomach.
I am gaining weight.
I eat to compensate from my stress.
I feel stress in my body.
I have a pain in my right shoulder.
Can you relate to any of these?
Or maybe you have other symptoms?
What are the physical symptoms you are suffering from as a result of work?
Not sure if they are related to work?
Well, I’m not saying that every single physical symptom you suffer from is the result of not liking your work.
However, I know that staying 5 days per week in work you hate is impacting negatively your health.
This is REAL.
Yes, staying in work you hate is making you sick!
Is that what you want?
If not, what are you going to do about it?
Today? This week?
Well, I can help.
I can help you feel alive, energized, and recharged at work and outside of work.
I let the day totally open with NO plans whatsoever…
I let it unfold organically according to what my body, mind, heart, and spirit needed in each moment.
It was a day of exquisite self-care.
And it was the BEST.
it started with going to my strength training class.
then, my body wanted sauna and steam room. So, I drove back home to pick up my bathing suit and went back to my gym to enjoy a combo of sauna + steam room + hot tub + pool + cold shower. As many times as my body wanted. No questions asked.
I got a green juice and treated myself to a healthy meal at one of my favorite local places.
then, I decided to call my mum and brother who were enjoying dinner in France. We had a wonderful impromptu video chat.
then, I got inspired to go for a walk at a local park I love (by the Bay).
I had called my favorite local spa earlier to see if they had availability for a massage. They called me back saying a spot had just opened up. So I treated myself to a very relaxing full body massage.
then, I was called to go back to the park I was at earlier (Point Isabel) to enjoy more of its beauty. So, I did. No overthinking, simply following the guidance of my body.
How often do you have NO-PLAN days and let the day unfold according to the inspiration of the moment?
If you don’t, you need to!
Our lives in our western societies (even more so in the busy overachieving US) are over planned. We need more unplanned days. Our body and mind need them. Our health needs them. When is your next NO-PLAN day??
Seriously??
This is a very SERIOUSquestion.
Your health depends on it.
Doing the work you love depends on it.
Your relationships depend on it! Your LIFE depends on it.
Our worst enemy is not outside ourselves, but inside. Every time we judge or blame ourself, buy other people’s judgements about ourselves, wish we were different than who we are, put unrealistic demands on ourselves and blame ourselves for not fulfilling them, or let others put unrealistic demands on ourselves, we act as our very own enemy.
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